Date night

This last Friday was a date night activity. I went with Ken. He called and left a message that he wanted to ask me a question about the date night. I admire that he asked me to call him so he could ask me and not my voicemail. Well when he picked me up he came to the door. Very nice. I hate guys that just honk their horns. Not a hooker people! He opened my door and made sure I was in before he shut it. Very nice. Then when we got to the activity he opened doors and everything. When the date was over he walked me to my door. Awkward moment enter here... Since I didn't know Ken that well I had no clue as to how he would have reacted to a hug so after a quiet moment passed I shook his hand. Stupid I know but what was I to do? I later told some of my friends about the moment and they said that I should have hugged him. I didn't want to freak him out. He has brothers. My brothers are not the hugging kind. They get all weirded out when I say, "I love you." So I didn't want to chance it. I had tons of fun Friday night. Not just because I was out with a guy but he is one of the gentlemen guys who open doors and walk their dates to their door at then end.
Some of the girls I talked to said that they didn't like that a guy opened their doors and pulled out their chairs or helped them put on their coats. I actually kind of like it. One mentioned that she didn't mind them opening the car door when getting in but getting out she didn't want that. I can understand her point of being in a skirt. It is hard getting in and out of a car when you have a dress on and still be lady-like. But I like to know that there are some men out there that know how to treat the ladies.

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Ok so I am really annoyed. Why is it when I was younger I wasn't allowed to have guys in my room let alone with the door shut. I would get reamed out for that. Well apparently that rule does not apply to the bros. Drives me nuts that there are standards for girls and another set entirely for boys. Not that I have to worry about having a guy in my room with the door shut. I would just be happy to have a guy.