Put me out of my misery

These past few days have been a killer. I had a three day weekend off so that should be good but it was so jam packed with things it was crazy. Friday night dad called and said that he wanted me to meet Marion. Who is Marion you might ask. It is the women he is marrying on October 9, 2008. (oh it is his birthday.) I only found out about this women less then a week ago and he said that he wanted us to meet her but it wouldn't be for awhile. Then out of the blue he calls and says that she is in town for the weekend. WHAT!!! I had plans Friday night. I was going to an activity at church. It was called Speed dating but was later turned into speed friendshipping. Yup speed friendshipping. It was fun. Dad then told me to call him Saturday when I had time to come and meet her. Then Saturday morning I had rehearsal. It ran late but it is getting down to the wire and things need to be happening quickly. After that was the Broadcast then after that mom and I did out Wal-Mart shopping. Needless to say I didn't call. Sunday was church. He called right in the middle of Relief Society. I called back after church. He said that she already left. They went to church and then she went back to her home in Alamosa. The only one of us kids that met her was Casey and that was only because he was broadsided. He went to dad's house to get something and didn't even know she was there until it was too late. His first response was not good. When he told me about her he said that she was chubby, short, had shaved eyebrows that were then colored in with pencil and that she was hit multiple times with the ugly stick. My dad tends to go for the ladies that have no self-respect and need taken care of. They have no idea what they are in for. They don't know about the years of emotional and mental abuse that this man dishes out without a blink of an eye. I never wanted to believe it but then once he started doing it to me I realized that it had been going on for quite awhile. My eyes are wide open. I just feel sorry for Marion. He wants me to come to his temple wedding. Right now I am leaning towards no. On Monday I went to Boulder to have lunch with some friends because a training got cancelled and I had already made the plans to meet up. It was good. The weather however was nuts. The wind was blowing so freaking hard, it got cloudy, snowed, stopped snowing, got sunshiny but still the wind still blew like mad. I went into Wal-Mart long enough to get a printer cartridge and when I came out it was a white out. About an hour later the sun was out and the stupid wind was still blowing. Then later that night was FHE. The box dinner. It was fun. Met the green eyed monster there too.